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When special attention is not given by someone special!

Once a lady was weaving the sweater while talking to her friend. Her little one came and asked her to come out; "Maiya, I want to show you something outside". The child witnessed small puppies playing for the first time and he felt his mother was so important that she should also witness the same. So he lovingly called her outside. But the mother was busy in talking to her friend and she ignored her child's request. The kid thought that his mother is not intelligent and will regret later. Hence, he lovingly called her again by pulling her hand and the sweater she was weaving was spoiled. She got angry by this and scolded the child asking who will correct this now, your father! The child cried not because of scolding, but because of insult. Please think what can be consequences of this? Shared by Indumati ji. The special ones do not want to just hear, that they are special, They will feel you special for lifetime, when you provide them the care unconditi

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मैं देश का नौजवान हूँ, दुश्मनों के लिए तूफान हूँ। जिस देश में मैं रेहता हूँ, उस देश की मैं शान हूँ।। हिंदुस्तानी हूँ, देश की निशानी हूँ। हैं साथी मेरे किसान, मैं बारिश का पानी हूँ।। हरपल कहता था मैं माँ से, एक मौका दे फर्ज़ निभाने का। कर्ज़दार हूँ तेरा माँ, एक मौका तो दे कर्ज़ चुकाने का।। और फिर एक दिन आया, जब देश को दुश्मनों से खतरा था। तब अपने साथियों संग, मैं भी मैदाने जंग में उतरा था।। चल रही थी गोली पे गोली, खेल रहे थे हम लाल रंग से होली। पर रुके नहीं बढ़ते गए हम आगे, जोश देख हमारा दुश्मन डरकर भागे।। खत्म हुआ जब सब, तो मौत लेने थी आई, ज़मीन पर पड़ा देख मुझे, आँख साथियों की भर आई। जब साथियों ने मेरे देश की मिट्टी, मेरे माथे पर लगाई, तब भारत माँ को मैंने अपने दिल की बात बताई।। मैंने कहा:- माँ गोद में मुझको बुला, मुझको हसा मुझको रुला। माँ गोद में मुझको बुला, मुझको हसा मुझको रुला। तेरी गोद में मैं सोना चाहूँ, माँ गोद में मुझको सुला।। माँ गोद में मुझको सुला।। आपका दोस्त, रोहित सलूजा पी. एच. डी. विद्यार्थी आई आई आई बी मोनेश रीसर्च एकेडमी

Poem: My country Bharat is my relative, not just a land.

My country BHARAT is my relative, not just a land, She is the mother of the world, with the heart so grand. Since the beginning of the creation, she is teaching devotion, Just like in God's kingdom, here also things have emotion. Emotions are present there, in every particle of her sand, My country BHARAT is my relative, not just a land, She is the mother of the world, with the heart so grand. Rivers and cows are considered as mother here, In the form of father, elders and Gurus receive love and care, Through stories and culture, such care is repeatedly enhanced, My country BHARAT is my relative, not just a land, She is the mother of the world, with the heart so grand. The seasons here are also respected as goddesses, They reciprocate, by giving fruits and vegetables in masses, The soil here is not considered as dust, but fragrance of God's hand, My country BHARAT is my relative, not just a land, She is the mother of the world, with the heart so grand. Even enemies are w

Why love keeps changing?

It’s interesting to observe how we are absorbed in particular situations in our life. When we are in a particular situation which our heart feels the best, we feel – Oh I can’t live without it, this is what i am here for.  Specifically, our most lovable object keeps changing in life, from childhood to youth to old age. When we are a small child, we are in love with our mother. Mother’s love is considered to be most selfless in this world. And we as a child cry only for one thing always – the love of our mother. We are fully dependent on our mother for everything - beginning with bodily needs like milk to emotional needs like affection.  Gradually we grow up and we find our playmates as our lovable objects. We try to remain out of our home, and wish to play with them always. The same mother whom we loved the most now looks like an enemy as she does not allow us to play with our friends, and we just can't understand - Why she always call me back while playing?

Nothing like home as at home we can do what we like to do!

It is said that hampering the wishes of small kids hamper their growth and decision making ability. A child is determined to do lot of things which you may not like. He/she likes to play in the sand but you are concerned that he/she might get fever or make the home dirty. He/she wants to swing on the door but you are concerned that he/she may get injured. He/she desires to crumple the bed-sheet repeatedly but you do not like as you have to correct it again and again. You are going to market he/she also want to go to market with you to buy things. You are cooking and he/she wish to cook with you. You do not want him/her to do all this as it disturb your work. A child is determined to lot of such things. Where then we get the possibility of not saying no ? We should rethink that is the home in which we are living only belong to us and not to our children? Are we facilitating them to feel homely by letting things they wish to do?  Should only children accept what we tell them and not we

A small signal is enough for an intelligent person!

It is said that the toddlers have big eyes and small ears. They hear not what we tell them to do but they do what they see us doing. Once an eight year old boy kissed a girl in his neighborhood and his parents scolded him inside and out. The boy was totally confused as to what was wrong with it. When he was born, there was a beautiful painting of hillside view in his house with a boy kissing a girl. Every day he used to watch the picture and witness the guests praising its beauty. He started kissing the guests to which everyone replied "how cute". And unknown to him was that innocent kiss for which he got the scolding now. It took great struggle for him to accept the reality. Now whose mistake it was, the child's mistake or the parents'? Imagine if a picture does this much, how much problems the mobile and television can create! It is said that a small signal is enough for an intelligent person. Take care of little angels. All the best! Story shared by Indumati ji

Think before you speak.

It is said that one should think before speaking anything since the words which are spoken once cannot be taken back. A lethargic person is known to use the words carelessly whereas a thoughtful person choose the words he speak very wisely.

It is possible to get the moon down to earth.

The habit of dreaming is ancient to humankind. We all, whether big or small, have dreams which we wish to accomplish. Even toddlers like to dream big. For instance, many of us had a dream to play with the moon in our childhood. Now if a child is crying to play with the moon, what should the mother do? Neither does she like to say no to her child, nor does she wishes to hamper her child's desires. But, other than saying that this is not an achievable dream, what option does the mother has?  The similar request was placed to Kaushalya by little Ram  once.  She handled it very intelligently. She placed a pot full of water in front of little Ram and Ramji could joyfully witness the reflection of his personal moon in the water. Mother Kaushalya who was full of wisdom added, "My little Ram is so special, that moon has landed on the earth for him".  Thus any parent can make his/her toddler feel that no dream is impossible to achieve. Its just that the way we might be t

A lesson for a bike lover.

Once a son, who just turned eighteen, asked his father that he wishes to purchase a new bike. The father replied him to carry on. The son reluctantly asked for the money to which the father replied, "I can not give you the money but I can guide you how to get the money". On further request the father explained, "you can save 50 Rupees everyday from your pocket money for the bike, and the day you are not able to I will help you". The son began to save the money and soon after saving his pocket money for few months he was able to gather the amount needed to purchase the bike he was dreaming about. With his father's permission he excitedly left to buy a new one. To his father's joy, the son returned back with a decent quality second hand bike instead of a new one and saved more than half of his collections. What made him do that? Few months back, he was highly passionate about purchasing a new one! The reason was that he learned the virtues like forbea